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Do you ever feel you are too tired, too worn out to do what is required? Perhaps you know what might be most beneficial, but you don’t have the energy or stamina to begin.  Maybe you feel discouraged that your life is not what you imagined and you feel uncertain how that could ever change.   As a result, you find yourself stuck and wondering, “How will I get out of this cycle and move forward? How will I ever break free from this negative thinking?”

Last week, Part 1 of this series discussed CHOICE as the first step in breaking free.  We looked at various scriptures to see how both old and new testament writers implored their readers to choose healthy thinking.  Even amid extreme difficulty, the prophet Jeremiah modelled turning his thoughts from his hardship to the goodness of God.  He had a choice to make, and he reminds us we do as well.  But once we realize this, what is the next step in breaking free from negative thinking?

Worship Defined

Webster defines worship in verb form as:

1: to honour or show reverence for as a divine being or supernatural power
2: to regard with great or extravagant respect, honour, or devotion
As a noun:
1: reverence offered a divine being or supernatural power, also an act of expressing such reverence
2: a form of religious practice with its creed and ritual
3: extravagant respect or admiration for or devotion to an object of esteem
We hear and see worship in many arenas.  It is clear as sports fans spend time, money, and emotion cheering on their favourite athlete(s).  We see it played out as some individuals climb the corporate ladder of success, with their eyes only on dollar signs. Various ads reveal the worship of a cultural definition of beauty.  It is easy to see that we are creatures made to worship and often, we do it subconsciously.
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As a believer and follower of Jesus, I want my worship to be of him.  I get caught up in these other things, for sure, but my primary adoration needs to be of God.  I have found this has a profound impact on my ability to break free from negative thinking.  When my focus is on myself and my circumstances alone, my view becomes very narrow.  I struggle with tunnel vision and lose the ability to think clearly.  If I can zoom out and gain perspective by focusing instead on the character of God, I find a shift happens.

Worship as a Remedy

Philippians 4:4 Rejoice in the Lord always; again, I will say, rejoice.

Psalm 29:2 Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name; worship the Lord in the splendor of holiness

1 Samuel 2:2 There is none holy like the Lord: for there is none besides you;
    there is no rock like our God.

Revelation 4:11 Worthy are you, our Lord and God, to receive glory and honour and power,
for you created all things, and by your will they existed and were created

Psalm 95:6-7 Oh come, let us worship and bow down; let us kneel before the Lord, our Maker! For he is our God, and we are the people of his pasture, and the sheep of his hand.

Admittedly, I woke on the wrong side of the bed this morning.  My outlook was bleak, my attitude poor.  If you would have put these words before me and told me to worship, I would have bristled and thought you insensitive and unkind. That’s where choice comes in.  If I want to break free from negative thinking and stave off a potential spiral, I need to capture my thoughts.  Is it better to think about what is difficult in the day ahead or what I am lacking OR fix my eyes on the God who is incomparable, holy, worthy and filled with care for his people? God is the better choice every time.  When I contemplate the character of God with transparency and vulnerability, worship is the remedy to break free from negative thinking.

Further Benefits

Besides adjusting perspective, there are hosts of other benefits to engaging in worship.  When we lift our eyes, searching for God, we invite his interaction.  James 4:8 says “Draw near to God and he will draw near to you.” In his presence, we can find assurance, peace, satisfaction and joy.  Psalm 23 talks about the restoring of our souls as we are in the presence of God.  That is so appealing to me! I long for his rescue, so I can break free from negative thinking.  As I am drawn by his closeness, it prepares me for authentic communication.  I’m ready to pray with more honesty and integrity than what it would have been had I stayed with my negative thoughts. Further, coming into God’s presence allows me the opportunity to deepen my relationship with him and know more of his character.  This growth brings awakening and renewed faith.

Christian neuroscientist, Dr. Caroline Leaf says,

The Bible has proposed worship as an antidote to mental conditions such as worry and anxiety. For instance, Jesus told us not to worry about the necessities of life, but to seek first the Kingdom of God, then all these things will be added to us. Seeking first the Kingdom of God involves worship. Paul’s cure for anxiety is prayer, supplication with thanksgiving. Much of the Book of Psalms is an intimate look into how to overcome mental anguish through worship. Do we see evidence of worship having a positive effect on the brain and therefore on the rest of the body? The answer is emphatically yes!

What now?

So before you write off this post because you are not a singer or musician, please note that music is not included in the definition of worship.  Showing honour and reverence can take many forms.  Today’s church talks about ‘worship services’ where we engage in singing, praying, listening.  These are common worship activities, but do not hold the boundaries of what defines adoration of God.

Consider:

  • What is most meaningful for you in traditional worship? Music? Prayer? Theology?
  • Where do you find your encounter with God most rich? Alone on your couch? In nature, beside still water or high on a mountain peak? Perhaps in advocating for the marginalized in the name of Jesus? Maybe it’s in diving deep in theological study.
  • How do you best express yourself? How can you tell God that he is worthy in a way that restores your soul? Writing? Art? Service?
  • What is holding you back?

In conclusion, if you find yourself lost in negativity or perhaps unable to express yourself honestly with God, consider discipleship coaching. Let’s walk together to discover how to break free from negative thinking and whatever else you feel is holding you back.  Mercy Seat Ministry is a faith-based counselling service available to you should you desire therapy.

Father, there is none like you.  Indeed, you are higher, stronger, more powerful and beyond all we can think of or imagine.  Thank you for the invitation to come boldly into your presence.  Help us Lord. It is often a sacrifice to bring our worship; it is uncomfortable! But thank you for the remedy it is! As we lift our eyes to you, we ask for clarity and fresh perspective. Thank you for your patience and grace.  We don’t deserve it, but are so grateful.